So, there we were... owners of a "successful" business for over 20 years. And yet - we changed everything. What happened? It's really a three-part story.
Part One: Leaving Our Roots
In order to understand, we have to take you back to circa 2013. We had just re-entered the arena of competitions, after a more than 18 year break. We should've just stayed away... but then we never would've realized our true purpose (and potential).
After many requests from students who wanted to compete (and their parents who felt that it would take them to the "next level"), we relented and trained a team for the 2013 State Tae Kwon Do Championships. Our results were disappointing - but not for the reasons you might think. Our students were told that they hit "too hard," and were losing matches because clear, body-shocking blows were not being scored by the judges. Judges were only interested in head shots, and didn't like the power we were delivering. We were asked to have our students "lighten up," a clear violation of everything we had taught our kids to that point - to practice like they perform - with power and strength. Meanwhile, the other kids were barely touching us, and winning over and over.
Undeterred, we brought teams back again and again over the next 4 years, to even worse results. It quickly became clear to us that in order to compete, we had to choose - train kids to win trophies, or train kids to win fights (if they needed to). We couldn't - in good conscience - train kids to pull their punches and more, knowing how muscle memory works. And we knew we had to educate parents who were being duped (our words) by other traditonal schools who were still teaching this way. "Get close, but don't actually touch," or "Touch, but only lightly." Any other sport would laugh at this thinking (can you imagine a baseball player - "Swing the bat, but just lightly touch the ball. Don't worry, when the time comes, you'll hit it with the right amount of force") yet, school after school continues to sell this LIE, and call it body "control."
Part Two: Ready for Change
Without that disillusionment, we never would've been ready to discover what ultimately became our new love - Kali. We discovered Kali, a Filipino fighting art, at a martial arts business conference. Discovering this art was a real turning point for us. For Paul, it was the discovery of something practical, and REAL. Something that didn't waste time on useless memorization, like our forms did. And something that was easily learnable, and with practice, a student could get comfortable proficient - in much less time than our current standard of a few years. For Kara, it was the discovery of techniques that for the 1st time EVER, felt like they would actually WORK, and give her - a less-than-five-foot-tall-female, an actual ADVANTAGE over an opponent, no matter their size.
Coming back from that training, we started delving deeper and deeper into the techniques and philosophies of the art, which was very similar for Paul to what he had studied as a young man before putting all his eggs in the tae kwon do basket. The problem was this - the art was looked at by many as a "combat" art, and therefore, would not be "family friendly." We had to look at how to take a "combat" style, and make it appropriate for kids, and more importantly - make it easy to understand, and give it a path to the full style when appropriate. Luckily the answer came from an unexpected source.